1. Greet strangers (and friends) with salaam.
What’s a better greeting? Peace be Upon You (which is also the greeting of the
inhabitants of paradise) or a greeting such as “Hi” which who knows what it
means?
Giving salaam to one another strengthens our love
for each other and strengthens the brotherhood (and sisterhood!) of the Ummah. It’s not a hard thing to do and we
shouldn’t feel shy about it. Even if our friends greet us with a “Hey” or a
“What’s up?” let’s be good role models and reply with a salaam.
2. Smile.
The Prophet
Muhammad (peace be upon him) said: "Charity is prescribed for each
descendant of Adam every day the sun rises.”…He also said: "Your smile for
your brother is charity."Fiqh-us-Sunnah,
Volume 3, Number 98.
Smiling is a really great habit to cultivate. Not only
does it make you happier, but it cheers up other people as well. For example, say you’ve had a really bad day;
maybe you didn’t do so great on your exam, or you stayed up the entire night
working on an assignment. You’re walking back to your Mahallah, totally
exhausted and depressed, and then out of the blue, a person gives you a big
smile. Smiling shows people you care.
Come on people, smiling is effortless, the risk of straining your cheek
muscles is minimal, so do put a smile on!
3. Pick
up trash and stones from the footpath.

4. Hold
a door open.
Instead of allowing it to
smash into the face of the person behind you :)
5. Tell
your parents/siblings how much they mean to you.
Sadly, we don’t do this
enough. We take our family for granted,
thinking they’ll always be around… please do take the time to say, “I Love
You”.
6. Give up your seat for
someone older than you.
Whether it is in the train, bus, or even when you are waiting for ages for your turn at the bank.
Whether it is in the train, bus, or even when you are waiting for ages for your turn at the bank.
The Prophet
(pbuh) said, “He is not of us
who does not have mercy on young children, nor honors the elderly”
(Tirmidhi).
7. Make
dua for the Ummah
Take at least five minutes out of your life every day to think of those less fortunate than we are. Alhamdulillah we live in a very peaceful, Muslim country with very few problems. Some Muslims living in non-Muslim countries have such a hard time. Some of our brothers and sisters in Somalia and other parts of Africa are starving. Muslims in Syria, Palestine… please, the least we can do is make dua for them. Perhaps, because of your dua, Allah will change the condition of the Muslim Ummah.

Take at least five minutes out of your life every day to think of those less fortunate than we are. Alhamdulillah we live in a very peaceful, Muslim country with very few problems. Some Muslims living in non-Muslim countries have such a hard time. Some of our brothers and sisters in Somalia and other parts of Africa are starving. Muslims in Syria, Palestine… please, the least we can do is make dua for them. Perhaps, because of your dua, Allah will change the condition of the Muslim Ummah.
8. Thank
someone for something you don’t usually thank them for.
The ladies at the café who
clear up our dirty plates, the bus driver who spends so much time everyday
ferrying us back and forth, all those people who work so hard.
The Prophet (pbuh) said: He who does not thank
Allah does not thank people.
9. Be a
good listener.
Most of us love to talk, I’m sure. I know I do. We should also
learn to love to listen. Listening carefully to your friend when she/he is
talking builds a stronger friendship, and you’ll learn stuff about him/her that
you never knew before. Listen to your younger siblings talk, they’ll respect
you more for it. And of course, do at least try to listen to your teacher in class!
10. And finally, very important, please take the time to comment on this post :)
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